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The core message of the song “How To Win Friends” can be closely related to the principles found in Scripture about building relationships and communicating effectively with others. The Word of God gives us specific guidance on how to interact with others in a way that is honorable and uplifting. “Let us look at what the Word of God says.” Proverbs 18:24 states: “A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother” (KJV).
The principles of genuine interest, sincere appreciation, and effective listening highlighted in the song echo biblical truths that promote harmony and respect among individuals.
Proverbs, written primarily by King Solomon, is a book of wisdom literature. Solomon was granted wisdom from God, as documented in 1 Kings 3:12. The book of Proverbs addresses a wide array of issues that pertain to human behavior, communication, and relationships. In particular, Proverbs 18:24 underscores the value of friendship and the behavior required to cultivate and maintain it. Solomon lived in a time where wisdom and understanding were prized, and thus, he provided guidance on maintaining relationships that are beneficial and godly.
This passage shows us that being a good friend involves actively demonstrating friendliness and kindness. It parallels the idea within the song that shows how effective communication and appreciation can cultivate strong, meaningful relationships.
The key word here is “friendly.” In Hebrew, the word used for “friendly” in Proverbs 18:24 is "רֵעַ" (re’a), which conveys the ideas of a companion or associate, someone who shows love and concern for another’s well-being. The depth of this term goes beyond superficial relationships into a realm of genuine, heartfelt interaction.
In the song, the idea of becoming “genuinely interested in their world” mirrors the Hebrew word, re’a, as it emphasizes the importance of going beyond courtesy to truly invest in understanding and appreciating another person.
Proclamation:
By the authority of God's Word, I declare that I am a vessel of genuine love and interest for others. I use my words wisely, listen intently, and honor others above myself. As I follow these divine principles, I build relationships that are rooted in love, respect, and the Spirit of God.
Prayer:
Heavenly Father, I thank You for the wisdom contained in Your Word that guides me to be a friend who loves at all times. I ask for Your help in taming my tongue, opening my ears, and softening my heart that I may favorably impact those around me. May I live in such a way that others see Christ in me and are drawn to Your great love and grace. In Jesus' name, Amen.
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