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At the heart of "Influence with Kindness" lies a powerful message that echoes a profound biblical principle: the power of our words and actions to build others up. As James 3:17 says, "But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, willing to yield, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality and without hypocrisy." Let us look at what the Word of God says about harnessing our interactions with others for their edification and God's glory.
James, the author of this epistle, was the half-brother of Jesus and a leader in the Jerusalem church. Writing to Jewish Christians scattered among the nations, combatting division and strife within the community, he sought to impart wisdom on living a godly life. The book of James is peppered with practical instructions for living out one's faith, emphasizing the necessity of coupling faith with works.
It is against this backdrop of turmoil and the struggle for righteous living that James speaks on the nature of true wisdom. He presents a contrast between earthly wisdom, which is marked by envy and selfish ambition, and heavenly wisdom, characterized by purity, peace, and gentleness. Evidently, the manner in which we interact with others is a direct reflection of which wisdom we espouse in our hearts.
One key word in James 3:17 is "peaceable" (Greek: εἰρηνική, eirênikê). This term does not merely indicate a lack of conflict, but it implies an active pursuit of harmony and reconciliation. It is closely related to the Hebrew concept of "Shalom," which encompasses completeness, welfare, and tranquility.
Another significant word to consider is "gentle" (Greek: ἐπιεικής, epieikês), suggesting a demeanor marked by kindness, moderation, and a yielding disposition. This goes beyond mere politeness, reflecting a heart genuinely transformed by God’s grace.
Understanding these terms provides depth to the concepts espoused in the lyrics, underscoring that true influence and connection are rooted in divine wisdom and grace.
In the lyrics, "Don't criticize, don't complain or condemn," is a principle deeply rooted in scripture. Proverbs 15:1 states, "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." In spiritual warfare, our greatest battleground is often our words. By choosing patience, as Colossians 3:12 suggests, we influence the spiritual atmosphere around us.
The instruction to "Give honest praise" finds resonance in 1 Thessalonians 5:11: "Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing." The act of encouragement aligns with the work of the Holy Spirit (Parakletos in Greek), who is our encourager and comforter. Thus, our encouragement becomes a ministry of the Spirit itself.
To "Be a good listener, encourage their talk," precisely mirrors James 1:19, "Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger." Listening is a powerful demonstration of love and respect, reflecting Christ's own attentive heart toward us. It shifts the focus from self-assertion to genuine connection, which is the essence of Christlike fellowship.
Furthermore, avoiding arguments as stated in "Avoid arguments, admit when you're wrong," aligns with Romans 12:18: "If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men." This yields not to passive tolerance of evil but rather to active peacemaking, a direct manifestation of the beatitudes (Matthew 5:9).
First, we must saturate our hearts in the Word of God, allowing it to reform our thoughts and motivations. As we meditate on scripture, we are empowered to act from a place of genuine love and spiritual wisdom.
Second, we must consciously decide to see others through the eyes of Christ—valued, loved, and worthy of respect. This transforms our interactions, making our words edifying.
Third, we need to practice active listening by engaging in conversations without the urge to dominate or refute. As we genuinely listen, we fulfill the law of love (Galatians 5:14) by affirming others' dignity.
Fourth, we should seek reconciliation actively, choosing humility over pride by admitting when we are wrong and offering forgiveness. As we do this, we witness to the reconciliation we have received from God through Christ (2 Corinthians 5:18).
Proclamation:
According to the truth of God's Word, I am filled with divine wisdom from above. This wisdom empowers me to be peaceable, gentle, and ready to yield. I affirm that my words and actions build up those around me. I walk in love, kindness, and truth, and I am an agent of God's reconciliation in this world.
Prayer:
Heavenly Father, thank You for the wisdom You provide us in Your Word. Conform our hearts and minds to reflect the peaceable and gentle nature of Christ in all of our interactions. Fill us with Your Spirit, that we may influence others through Your love and truth. May every word and deed bring glory to Your Name and draw others nearer to You. In Jesus' mighty name, Amen.
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